Relationship doctor is here. Part 2

There is no secret on how to hold on to a partner. It’s either ones partner is deceiving or not. No one will walk to you and tell you your relationship is headed for the rocks if u can’t see the obvious


It is saddening that single people yearning for 'a completing partner' are not sure of what they want. So many young ladies are still after the tall, handsome, caring, non-smoking guy from the M&B novels. The guys too still want that perfect body as well as attitude of a dove.

Anyone, who can’t reason with his/her brain when in love or when seeking for love will end up heart-broken. The youths will make decisions with their heart but when dawned with realities of life, they switch to making relationship decisions with their brain. The most effective is the combination of the heart and brain to make decisions.


 Some are fearfully in love to the extent they can’t ask their partner where he/she wants the relationship to lead to. It’s not only asking our partner what directions the relationship is heading, we should also ask ourselves if we want it in same direction. If the destination for love isn’t marriage then it should rather be classified as lust.


Like I said earlier, no one will tell you your relationship is heading for d rocks when it’s obvious for you to see. If he/she fools you with words, he/she can’t fool you with actions. Even when fooled by words and actions, ladies are not to share their cookie. Not giving out your cookie will help separate the chaffs from the wheat. How many a player will wait for marriage to share your cookie? None; because marriage isn’t their plan. It’s a hard thing to do but who loses if you do give him.


It takes more than emotions and feelings to have a perfect relationship. It requires rational thinking and avoiding temptations.


Read Part 1 (Relationship soctor is here) here: http://bit.ly/vJfTD9